My name is not important. If you know it then that means that you're a friend or saw it when I had it on my old profile. I have been here since 2004. So I am by no means "a noob". I have a tendency to speak my mind and not care if it offends. I'm not here to please you or anyone else for that matter. I am here because I love the site and it's a great place to meet new people with similar interests. My private life is just that, PRIVATE. Therefore not your concern nor your business. So do not ask about it. I do try to reply to my inboxes/comments but I like to converse with people that can manage more than a "hi" or type as follows: "hi hw r u". Put some effort into your comment. The above may make me come off sounding like a bitch but I'm far from it. I just have a low tolerance for bullshit and stupid people.