About Kandy Kids & PLUR :) What is a Kandi Kid? ♥ A Kandi Kid is a raver with such a happy and positive vibe that they feel they need to wear the vibe.
♥ The typical Kandi Kid will wear tons of necklaces, bracelets, maybe a huge colorful baby-block chain, stickers, bright colorful clothing, furry stuff, wide pants, and a kids backpack full of toys, stickers, and candy. There is no guideline to what a Kandi Kid has to wear, they wear whatever makes them feel happy.
What makes a Kandi Kid a Kandi Kid? ♥ A Kandi Kid is not defined by what they wear. A Kandi Kid is defined by what a person feels inside.
♥ A Kandi Kid will have a huge amount of positive energy inside them and will usually do whatever they feel like doing oblivious to what other people think about it. They're the ones running around raves like they own it and talking to people as if they have known them all their life.
The meaning and origin of PLUR ♥ A lot of Ravers think PLUR is some philosophy dating back to Woodstock. True, Hippies were big on peace & love. But that's not where plur came from. All true old Schoolers know about PLUR & its significance to the entire rave culture.
The first origin of PLUR ♥ Frankie Bones introduced raves (in the underground party sense) to the east coast by throwing a series of big underground parties. They were known as the Storm Raves. Many promoters give Mr. Bones credit as the founding father of raves in America. It was at one of these Storm Raves that Mr. Bones gave a very important speech after one of his very powerful sets. He explained what the scene was about and why he had brought it to NY: Peace, Love, and Unity. When he finished everybody in the warehouse waved their hands in the air in complete unity, for many it was the most beautiful speech anyone has ever heard.
♥ When NE-Raves were started up at The University of Maryland, all the old schoolers still talked about Frankie's speech. They talked about it so much that PLUR became the acronym for peace, love, unity, and respect. But it was Dan Freelove, the list administrator of NE-Raves; to first use PLUR in his sig. as a result PLUR became an NE-Raves 'thing'. However more recently the meaning of PLUR started to fade. But one netter (from Montreal Canada actually) tried redefining it the best he could.
The second version of PLUR’s origin From: Laura Lagash
Date: Mon, 18 Nov 1996 11:29:33 -0800
♥ Lots of people in the New York area, Frankie Bones included were saying "peace/love/unity" all the time in 1992-1993.
♥ In about May of 1993, Brian Behlendorf came out to visit the East Coast from San Francisco. He brought along a bunch of literature, including Geoff White's booklet, "Cybertribe Rising." In it was an essay -- by Geoff I believe -- about the "4 Pillars of the House Community." One of those pillars was "respect," which I had never heard uttered in combination with "peace/love/unity" on the East Coast. Sure, I'd seen "respect" on its own, especially on flyers where people would give "shout outs" to people who helped put on a party, but it was not really prominent.
♥ So in very early June, 1993, Brian and I were at a renegade party held at RFK stadium's parking lot in Washington DC, and we started talking about the spirits and feelings behind raving. I said something about "peace/love /unity" and Brian immediately added "and don't forget Respect." From there it hit me that a lot of people would say "peace/love/unity" and not mention respect. So, I went and wrote the essay you have at (link is broken) When I wrote it, though, I didn't have the acronym "PLUR" attached to it. I wrote the essay and posted it to NE-raves, in early June of 1993. Very shortly thereafter, one NE-Raver, Rishad Quazi (who now lives in SF), signed an e-mail to the list with "PLUR." It caught on like wildfire, and Rishad's encapsulation is now in extremely common use.
♥ Now, getting back to Frankie Bones. In late June of 1993, I spun at a party that the old Storm Rave crew (Frankie Bones, Adam X, Heather Heart) were putting on in conjunction with the New Music Seminar in New York City. During that party, a scuffle broke out between rival gang members. Frankie jumped up on the turntables and started shouting "If you guys don't show some peace, love and unity right now I'm going to break your faces." He didn't mention "respect" explicitly. I've been to all the Storm Raves except for those in early 1992, and Frankie made a lot of speeches.
♥ In April of 1993 he made one in a warehouse after an extremely good night (it was the STOP party held the night before Easter). He did say why he brought raves to NY, and talked about the first party he spun at outside of London, and said "we're about bringing music and dancing to places where there's no music and dancing." And when he finished, people did roar and wave their hands in the air, but he didn't articulate PLUR as such. And it wasn't Dan Freelove who was the first NE-Raver to use PLUR as an acronym. I'm about 99% sure it was Rishad Quazi. And if it wasn't Rishad, then it probably was Dan, but I'm still mostly sure it was Rishad.
♥ So there you have it, the story from someone who was actually there. I think a lot more of the credit goes to Geoff White and Rishad Quazi than to Frankie Bones is all I'm getting at. And some goes to me and Brian :-)
♥ Laura
The meaning of PLUR ♥We are all connected. And do you know what connects us all? It’s an acronym that stands for Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. These are big words and may be difficult to define but here are some ideas:
♥ Peace:
The calmness you find with those around you, and also inside of yourself. It’s tough, we often have to work at it but when you're at peace with others, with ourselves and with our planet only good can come of it.
♥ Love:
The caring you feel for friends, for strangers, for those in need and also for caring you show for yourself. It’s symbiotic, it's about sharing whatever energy you put into something will be returned to you!
♥ Unity:
This means we all share a lot of common things, regardless of our age, gender, race, orientation, whatever! We are all human beings, we all need other people, & we're all in this for the happiness experienced being around others. Though we may have differences, we all arise from the same source.
♥ Respect:
This may mean respect for others, their ideas, their music, & their lives. It’s also respect for one's self: one's body and the needs that it has (food, sleep). Educating yourself on the substances you ingest shows love and respect for your body; passing on the knowledge to others shows respect and love for your fellow person.
♥ How one chooses to practice PLUR in their everyday life may be different.
♥ Here is Another way you can preserve the morals that PLUR teaches:
It is a personal choice you make in an attempt to continue to develop new morals and values as you continue on through life. That personal choice affects others and they react to my choice in a way which they personally choose also, this will not make me change my values for them, but it will cause me to react to their reactions of my actions. Thus, you will be forever changing your ideas based on the actions of others based on your initial actions.
♥ It is just a way of saying that these are our views of PLUR. Because you do feel it is possible for me to love until you are acting on someone’s belief that you are not to love.
♥ Basically, you give peace when given peace; You give love when given love; You are united with one when they seek union with you; You respect when you are respected.
♥ For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. There is evil and there is good, and without one there can not be the other. It is a philosophy of balance and wholeness
♥ You may not always see it, it may not exist everywhere, but I have it, and in a way that is all that matters, since it is within you, it is possible to be everywhere.
♥ One is all. We are all connected.
♥ How you choose to practice it or whether or not you choos to practice it is up to you.
♥ This artical is from PLRM (Peace Love Rave Magazine) "with some adjustments"