Opinions

!WARNING! This is long! If you read it awesome, if you don't I won't take offense.

These are MY opinions. Agree or disagree, it won't change a thing. It's how I feel, not you, not anyone else. If you have something to say, or would like to make an argument, go right ahead, I listen to what others have to say, even if I don't agree. Just please if you message me regarding any of this, know what your talking about and don't be childish, or I will just ignore you.

[Updated: 09.28.10]


Abortion: I find this utterly horrifying. I can't believe someone would even think to kill a baby (yes, baby, because no matter what the scientific definition is, it's still a human fucking being!) just because they don't want it. I'm sorry your young and you like having sex, but those are the consequences for your actions, if you don't feel you are ready to take care of a child, there is always adoption, I'm sure someone else would love a child but can't have one of their own. I do however understand in the case of rape or death of both the mother and child, that abortion is an option. If the person got raped, it is not their fault they are pregnant therefor should be given the option of abortion. If the person will die if they have the baby also causing the baby to die, then I also understand that, it's good to save one life at least.
Edit: I've been reading up on some medical stuff lately and found I might have something serious, I've diagnosed myself and have yet to see a real doctor so nothing is for sure, but if I do have what I think I have then I'm even more against abortion because I may not ever be able to have a child therefor those who can and choose to just throw it away I'm extremely envious of, I never though much about being a mother but the though of not even having a choice is horrible. Next time you have a scare remember there are others out there who are not even able to make a choice at all.

Gay rights: I believe everyone is entitled to be with whoever they want. I understand in the religious aspect of it that if two people of the same sex get together it can put a stop to reproducing but it's not like everyone is going to be gay or lesbian so it really should not matter all that much. I do think little girls who are like 13 and 14 should stop saying they are bi without actually knowing all that much about it, that's just fucking annoying.

Discrimination: I hate discrimination, what I hate even more is reverse discrimination. Reverse discrimination is when mainly African Americans discriminate against white people because they think we are discriminating against them. I'm sorry that there are white people who hate you, I'm sorry they say mean things to/about you, but that doesn't make every white person a horrible person. And white people... slavery ended a long time ago, GET OVER IT, get off your ass and do things for yourself and blame your problems on yourself. I guess this doesn't apply any more seeing as how our president is black... or does that just make everyone who dislikes him a racist? What the fuck is this world coming to? btw check out this link: Overplaying the Race Card

War: This is a tough one for me. Growing up in a liberal town I have heard nothing but bitching about it... and that makes me want to be for it more then against it (I guess you got to live in my town to understand this). Basically I think that it's unfortunate because so many lives are lost, but sometimes (not all) it's necessary. I mean without war we would not have freedom, african americans would not be free from slavery, and so many other things, we today take for granted.

Obama: I'm not going to hold back an opinion in fear of being labeled a racist, our president is black, so what? He's a man who has to make decisions that affect the entire country, if he screws up I'm not gonna just turn my head the other way because of his skin color. There were so many people who despised Bush and wanted nothing more then to see him dead, I don't wish that upon Obama but I will not just hide how I feel in fear of being labeled. I personally do not like Obama, I do not like his health plan and will be really pissed if it get's passed. I don't agree that illegal aliens should get free health care, which FYI ISN'T FREE. Their idea is pretty much that everyone in the US should buy health insurance, not an option, you must buy it, pay for it with your own money, not theirs while they tax the shit out of everyone else. Fuck that. I don't have health insurance and if I get sick I get sick, whatever. I don't have much money but I pay taxes and I don't want my tax money going to people who don't fucking deserve it. Maybe it's just me but I don't remember our economy being this shitty under Bush. In the next four years Obama will ruin the economy sending us back into a depression. And I know for sure I will not be voting for him if he runs for re-election. Fuck that.

Pre-marital sex: The only thing I have against this is when 12/13/14 year olds say they are having sex, I find this disgusting and horrifying. These are little kids and shouldn't be doing this, yet they think it's soo cool. Sex is something that's supposed to be passionate, romantic and something that's going to mean a lot to you (or so I think) so why throw it all away when your young just to be cool? I realize that age is just a number and having sex is something you should do when the time is right for you and you are ready to take on the huge responsibility and know what your getting yourself into, but most people now a days don't really know what they are getting into and think its just something fun until they find out they are pregnant and it's a whole other story. Learn the facts before you hop in the sack!

Love: Not too sure if I believe in it or not. My family life has shown me that love doesn't really exist, especially when your young. My friends try to prove me wrong but ultimately they keep proving my opinion. But my grandparents, I think they are in love, been together for over 40 years and love each other more then life. Edit: Currently I think I have found love... I met a man that I care so deeply about that he's all I can think about, everything reminds me of him and I don't want to spend a minute with out him. Sometimes I just cry randomly thinking about how much I love him, it's hard for me to deal with because I've never felt like this before for anyone and I'm so afraid of getting my heart broken by him. Edit 2: So I've been with this same man for 3 years. I deeply do care about him and did love him, he was my first love. But I'm unsure how I feel anymore. Or how he feels for that matter...

Beauty: "In the eye of the beholder" While that is true, it's also the way the person is. Beauty to me is an attitude, to be beautiful you must be gracious, kind, polite, and flawless. Sure, looks count too, but sometimes people let their looks go to their heads. This annoys the fuck out of me. There are many people on this site who think that just because they are good looking they can be mean to other people and it's really fucked up! So if your good looking and nice to others, good for you! You're awesome!

Animal Cruelty: I don't understand how one can torture an animal? They are so cute and innocent! I understand hunting if you are going to actually eat the animal (animals are put on the earth to eat!)but to torture it, or just hunt for sport is sick and sad, you might as well be hunting humans! (*No I am not for hunting humans!*)

Labels: "For soup cans" I find that to be bull shit! Everyone labels, EVERYONE. "mother", "sister", "teacher", those are all labels and we use them every day in our daily lives. Now labels such as "prep" and "goth", those somewhat annoy me, but I can't say I don't use them. Sometimes they are just there to help you understand something better, or explain something/someone better, whether that be positive or negative.

Emo: Now that I got labeling out of the way, let me label a group of people lol. I HATE the word and the whole idea of "emo". Emo is short for emotional, which ok, I understand how the fad (yes, fad, which is what it is) came to be, but why not call it depression? Oh yeah because half the time the people who say they are emo are not even clinically depressed, they just want a reason to act the way they do. WELL GROW UP! So many people have it way worse then you ever will. Sorry your family doesn't get you everything you want, and your mother is working trying to support your sorry ass, so she can't always be with you, and sorry your slut girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating on you, but guess what, SHIT HAPPENS! Millions of people have no homes, millions more go without food, and do they complain, no! They do something about it, so shut up, stop complaining, get off your ass and do something about your pathetic problems instead of making a dumb excuse for them. Ok I'll admit, I call people "emo" a lot, but then again if I say "hey that wanna be clinically depressed person looks stupid" would you understand me? No, you would think I'm crazy, so I have to say "emo" because it has become a part of our classifications, which is quite sad. (*sorry if this pisses anyone off, but it's how I feel*) *Update* I do stand by what I say but I have to add this... be who you are but don't try to become something to fit in to a certain crowd. Because once you start becoming someone you are not then you won't know yourself anymore, and that's just sad.

Goth: I am constantly being called a "goth" but don't see it at all, I have looked up several times what "goth" really is and by definition, anyone who wears black and listens to metal is "goth". But I think that's bull shit. I think it's an attitude and a way of looking at life that makes you goth, and I don't have that, I'm just me, no other way to really describe me.

Drugs: I'm not into drugs or druggies. I think stoners are stupid, not funny, and have no future what-so-ever. Doing drugs doesn't make you cool, look cool, or act cool, so why do them? "because their fun" you wouldn't know what fun was if it hit you! "how would you know if you never tried them" who said I never tried... besides, I have friends who have done drugs and it just fucks up your life completely. I have better things to do with my time then get high. I don't hate people who do drugs and won't pass judgment on you if you do, I just don't see the point and choose not to do them.

Sell-Out: God I hate it when people use the term "sell-out" because for the most part they don't have a fucking clue what they are talking about. Example: "Zomg so-and-so has their video playing on MTV, they are such a sell-out!!" um how? Did they ever say that they disliked MTV? Selling out is selling what you stand for and believe in to be rich... if your not going against who you are then you are just making more money and getting a bigger fan base, what's the problem with that? People just get mad because their underground band no one ever heard of is being listened to by people they do not like... well... GET OVER IT. A star has just as much right to making more money then the average person with a normal job... if you were working your ass off in a company for x amount of years and had the opportunity to be recognized for it and make more money would you turn it down? Hell no. Unless it goes against ones beliefs most people want more money and stars are no different, that is their JOB, they need money to survive!